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  • Becoming a Better Man: Guiding You from Teenage Years to Fatherhood

    Becoming a Better Man: Guiding You from Teenage Years to Fatherhood

    Welcome to our show, dedicated to helping young men navigate the journey from their teenage years to fatherhood, and ultimately, into maturity. We understand that life is a continuous learning process, and we believe in the power of shared experiences and wisdom. That’s why we bring on older men who have gone through various stages of life, to share their experiences, failures, and lessons learned.

    Our goal is to provide you with the guidance and support you need to become a better man. We believe that personal growth and development are essential for every individual, and we want to be a part of your journey towards self-improvement.

    During your teenage years, you may be facing various challenges, such as peer pressure, academic stress, and the search for your identity. Our show aims to address these issues and provide you with practical advice on how to navigate through them. We understand that it can be overwhelming, but remember that you are not alone. Many men have faced similar challenges and have come out stronger on the other side.

    As you transition into your early 20s, you may be starting your career, exploring new relationships, and making important life decisions. This period of your life is crucial for personal growth and setting the foundation for your future. Our guests will share their experiences and offer insights on how to make the most of this time in your life.

    One of the most transformative experiences in a man’s life is becoming a father. It is a journey filled with joy, challenges, and responsibilities. Our show will provide you with valuable advice on fatherhood, from experienced dads who have been through it all. We will discuss topics such as parenting techniques, work-life balance, and building strong relationships with your children.

    Finally, we believe that maturity is a lifelong process. It is about constantly learning, adapting, and growing as an individual. Our show will continue to provide you with valuable insights from older men who have lived through different stages of life. We hope that their stories will inspire you to embrace personal growth and become the best version of yourself.

  • Becoming a Better Man: Navigating the Journey from Teenhood to Fatherhood

    Becoming a Better Man: Navigating the Journey from Teenhood to Fatherhood

    Welcome to our show, dedicated to helping young men navigate the journey from their teenage years to fatherhood and beyond. Our goal is to provide you with valuable insights, lessons, and experiences from older men who have walked this path before you. We believe that by learning from their successes and failures, you can become a better man.

    Life is a continuous journey of growth and development. The transition from adolescence to adulthood can be both exciting and challenging. It is during this time that we start to define our values, shape our character, and establish our goals. However, it can also be a period filled with uncertainty, confusion, and mistakes.

    That’s where our show comes in. We bring on older men who have experienced the ups and downs of life and are willing to share their wisdom with you. They have been through the same struggles and have learned valuable lessons along the way. By listening to their stories and advice, you can gain valuable insights that will help you navigate the challenges of adulthood.

    Our guests come from diverse backgrounds and have faced various obstacles in their lives. Some have excelled in their careers, while others have overcome personal hardships. They have experienced heartbreak, failure, success, and everything in between. Their stories are relatable and inspiring, offering you a glimpse into the realities of adulthood.

    We discuss a wide range of topics on our show, including personal growth, relationships, career development, mental health, and fatherhood. We believe that these areas are crucial for a man’s overall well-being and success. By addressing these topics, we aim to provide you with practical advice and strategies that you can apply to your own life.

    Our show is not just about learning from others; it’s also about fostering a sense of community. We encourage you to engage with us and share your own experiences and insights. We believe that by creating a supportive network of like-minded individuals, we can all grow and learn together.

    Whether you’re a teenager trying to figure out your path in life, a young adult navigating the challenges of adulthood, or a new father adjusting to the responsibilities of parenthood, our show is here to support you. We want to help you become the best version of yourself, both personally and professionally.

    So, join us on this journey of self-discovery and growth. Tune in to our show and let the wisdom of older men guide you towards becoming a better man. Remember, it’s never too early or too late to start improving yourself.

  • Becoming a Better Man: A Journey from Teenhood to Fatherhood

    Becoming a Better Man: A Journey from Teenhood to Fatherhood

    Welcome to our Show!

    Are you a young man in your teens or early twenties, looking to navigate the challenges of life and become a better version of yourself? Or perhaps you’re a new dad, seeking guidance on how to navigate the joys and responsibilities of fatherhood? Look no further, because our show is dedicated to helping you on this transformative journey.

    Our show is all about bringing on older men who have experienced the ups and downs of life and are willing to share their wisdom with you. We believe that by learning from the experiences and failures of others, you can gain valuable insights and avoid making the same mistakes.

    Teenhood: Navigating the Transition

    The teenage years can be a challenging time, filled with confusion and uncertainty. Our show aims to provide guidance and support as you navigate this crucial phase of your life. From dealing with peer pressure to making important life decisions, we cover a wide range of topics that are relevant to young men like you.

    Early 20’s: Building a Foundation

    As you transition into your early twenties, it’s important to start building a strong foundation for your future. Our show offers practical advice on career development, financial management, and personal growth. We bring on successful men who have achieved their goals and can share valuable insights on how to do the same.

    Fatherhood: Embracing the Role

    For those of you who have recently become fathers, our show is here to support you on your journey. We understand that fatherhood comes with its own set of challenges and responsibilities. We bring on experienced dads who can provide guidance on everything from changing diapers to fostering a strong bond with your child.

    Maturity: Embracing Wisdom

    As you continue to grow and mature, our show will be there to help you embrace wisdom and become the best version of yourself. We explore topics such as self-improvement, relationships, and personal fulfillment. Our aim is to inspire and motivate you to live a fulfilling and purposeful life.

    So, whether you’re a young man looking to navigate the challenges of life, a new dad seeking guidance, or someone on a journey of personal growth, our show is here to support you. Join us as we learn from the experiences and failures of older men and embark on a journey of becoming a better man.

  • Becoming a Better Man: Navigating the Journey from Youth to Maturity

    Becoming a Better Man: Navigating the Journey from Youth to Maturity

    Welcome to our show dedicated to helping young men in their teen and early 20s develop into responsible adults and navigate the challenges of fatherhood and maturity. We understand that the journey from youth to maturity can be filled with both triumphs and failures, and we are here to provide you with the wisdom and guidance of older men who have walked this path before.

    Our goal is to equip you with the necessary tools and knowledge to become the best version of yourself, both personally and professionally. Each episode features interviews with older men who share their experiences, lessons learned, and valuable insights gained throughout their lives.

    We firmly believe that learning from the experiences and failures of others is one of the most effective ways to grow and develop as an individual. By listening to their stories, you will gain valuable insights into various aspects of life, including relationships, career, personal growth, and fatherhood.

    Our guests come from diverse backgrounds and have a wealth of knowledge to share. They have experienced the ups and downs of life and have learned valuable lessons along the way. Whether it’s overcoming adversity, finding success in their careers, or navigating the complexities of relationships, their stories will inspire and motivate you.

    Through our show, we aim to foster a sense of community and support among young men who are striving to become better versions of themselves. We encourage you to engage with us and share your own experiences, questions, and insights. Together, we can create a space where young men can learn from one another and grow together.

    As you embark on this journey of personal growth and development, remember that becoming a better man is a lifelong process. It requires self-reflection, a willingness to learn, and the courage to face challenges head-on. We are here to support you every step of the way.

  • Rain, Tricks, and Eggs: Life at Smart Growth Farms

    Rain, Tricks, and Eggs: Life at Smart Growth Farms

    It’s been a scorching summer here at Smart Growth Farms, but God has smiled upon us with a change in weather. Bringing some much-needed rain and cooler temperatures, grass is beginning to grow again. As the rain pours down, the dry lot where our sheep have been confined turns into a muddy playground, and they will be ecstatic to get on some fresh grass. Oddly enough, they detest hay.

    But let’s talk about the real mischief-makers on the farm – the pigs. These sneaky little turds have been up to no good, playing tricks on our poor dogs. We suspect they’ve been scaling the barn roof, taunting the dogs from above. That’s the only logical explanation for why our loyal canines hate them and bark incessantly at night. It’s a never-ending battle of wits between the pigs and the dogs, and we can’t help but guess what happens during the night.

    Now, let’s move on to the feathered residents of Smart Growth Farms – the chickens. These clucky ladies have been holding out on us all summer, not laying a single egg. We’ve been feeding and caring for them; all we got in return was an empty nesting box. But finally, the tides have turned, and the eggs are starting to roll in.

    Oh, the joy of collecting fresh eggs from our very own chickens! No more relying on others or paying the grocery store for eggs from who knows what feed and care. The satisfaction of cracking open a warm, freshly laid egg for breakfast is unparalleled. It’s a small victory but one that brings us immense delight.

  • How Smart Growth Can Help Your Small Business Thrive in Devine, TX

    How Smart Growth Can Help Your Small Business Thrive in Devine, TX

    Bring your business online on a budget

    Welcome to Smart Growth, your trusted partner in helping your small business thrive in Devine, TX, and the surrounding areas through the leverage of internet technology. We understand small business owners’ challenges, and our mission is to provide you with the tools and support you need to succeed. This blog post will explore how Smart Growth can help your business grow and prosper.

    Creating a Strong Online Presence

    In today’s woke digital age, having a strong and autonomous online presence is essential for any business. Even finding a business in our small town can be a serious challenge, let alone a reputable business that won’t rake you over the coals at billing time. We help showcase your business and connect you to Social Media in a smart way to ensure your customers connect with you through your positive reputation. At Smart Growth, we specialize in creating customized websites representing your brand and attracting more customers. We will work closely with you to develop a minimum viable product that showcases your unique offerings and engages your target audience with a low entry cost and safety from cancellation by woke corporations.

    By leveraging our expertise in web design and development, we ensure that your website looks visually appealing and functions seamlessly across different devices. We understand the importance of a responsive and user-friendly website, as it directly impacts your customers’ experience and their decision to engage with your business.

    Ethical and Sustainable Practices

    We are passionate about supporting ethical and sustainable practices at Smart Growth. We can’t stop the wokeness, but we can help you build in parallel with it and mitigate getting canceled.

    We believe in nurturing a sustainable environment, both for our community and the planet. By choosing Smart Growth, you can showcase your commitment to ethical business and attract customers who appreciate businesses that prioritize making the woke go broke.

    Tailored Solutions for Your Business

    Every small business is unique, and we understand that your needs may differ from others in the industry. That’s why we offer tailored solutions to meet your specific requirements at Smart Growth. Whether you need assistance with inventory management, customer relationship management, or marketing strategies, we are here to support you.

    We believe in empowering small business owners like you by giving you the autonomy to make informed decisions. We want you to be in control of your business without being dependent on external platforms or the whims of the woke. Our solutions are designed to ensure you have the tools and knowledge to confidently navigate the ever-changing political landscape.

    Join the Smart Growth Community Today

    By partnering with Smart Growth, you become part of a community dedicated to your success. We believe that working together can create a thriving and sustainable environment for everyone. Whether you’re a small business owner, farmer, individual looking to launch your brand or a charitable organization, we are here to help you thrive and prosper.

    Contact us today to learn more about our services and how we can tailor them to meet your needs. Together, let’s embark on a journey of growth and success!

  • From Farm to Family: Far From Finished.

    From Farm to Family: Far From Finished.

    From Farm to Family.

    The days go on, rapidly passing in this endless life loop. With full-time careers, kids overly scheduled for activities, rigorous Farmer’s Market tempo, and an endless to-do list, we found ourselves burning out as we operated at warp speed from the latter year’s holiday without reprieve. Where had the time gone? What had been accomplished? And, what did it mean if, in the end, there was no joy?

    Summer times here, a time for laughter, adventure, and long nights in the backyard, spending quality time. Josh and I have realized we can’t have it all right now. For us, family is the focus. We only have a finite time to spend time and make memories. So, we have just decided to slow down. Take some of the livestock we raise out of cycle, scale back on Farmer’s Market attendance, and pursue more joy. 

    Joy in Short.

    In pursuit of joy, we find ourselves doing more projects at home together, building imperfect creations that spark joy. Whether it be a brooder, a tallow recipe, or a gardening hack, we’ve re-found pleasure in creation. The girls are really into creative writing, and it has been a treat as they develop various archetypes, often narrating their latest iteration with great artistic license and often using their baby brother as a stage prop, lol. On a more intentional note, we spend more time in the Word and fellowship with our family in Christ, joy words cannot define. The slowdown has created this microcosm of joy that has transformed us in unexpected yet better ways.

    With that, we continue to care for rabbits, chickens, ducks, sheep, pigs, and the occasional cow; however, this is less about creating products and more about feeding our family and community enough supply to meet customers’ demands as needed. So, this is not “so long,” as we will continue to attend a few markets and are hopeful for other products we are testing at Smart Growth Farms. We are only reframing how we do business to maximize family time beyond the grind.

    Psalm 16:11. You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore.

     

     

  • And Just Like That, It’s January: We’re Juggling!

    And Just Like That, It’s January: We’re Juggling!

    The Beginning of The End of The Year.

    I cannot recall December. We often went 100 MPH during a time that should have been slow and deliberate. Yet, with visits, gifts, and events, we just picked up with January and pressed. In November, I received a notification from my job that I would have to leave for 35 days to attend training in Alabama. It could not have been more poorly timed. January and February are big celebratory months for us, kids’ birthdays and my and Josh’s anniversary. This year, we planned to visit Disney World for Emerson’s 1st birthday; upon notification of my training, I was notably vexed as days prior, we’d secured a hotel for our Florida trip.

    Naturally, Josh and I were fuming about this disruption. We thrive as a unit; I am unsure if there is more to say. We work well together; the girls are fantastic ranch hands and sisters to each other and their baby brother. So, the idea of not taking them on this trip was quite disheartening. But, as is the life of a dual-military family, the trip was delayed, and I was off to Alabama on 4 January…yay. As I write from training, I cannot quite explain how it feels as a first-time mom to be away from your child; I feel like I cannot breathe; God knows, I am not sleeping (hello insomnia).

    As we navigate my absence, Emerson has only slept separately from me for two nights with my mom in our home. Plus, he moved daycare rooms, so I am filled with many fears. The girls [unfortunately] returned to public school (a convo for another day). It feels very unsettling not to have been there to walk them to their classes and meet their teachers. On top of that, my husband has military duty, the kids and their activities, the farm, and other community responsibilities. I feared that he would burn out, but he is holding strong. My hero.

    Josh has unmatched discipline. I pity the fool who thinks they work harder than him. There is no pity party; he gets it done. He has the farm running like a well-oiled machine. I watched him build cross-fencing in December, pounding holes and wiring for hours. He has been at farmer’s markets most weekends and delivering meat to local customers (thank you to our supporters). The silver lining through this experience has been the support of our local friends watching Emerson and the girls, dropping them off to and from practices; we are largely successful because of our family by choice, our friends. I was relieved that Josh was running the housefront well. However, it did not stop me from jumping on the first plane back to Texas to spend time with my family and give him a much-needed break.

    My Visit Home, Texas!

    Of course, getting home was no small feat. My flight was delayed two hours, causing me to miss my connection. I got to San Antonio after midnight versus 8 p.m., woof. Josh was sick when I arrived. So, I was happy to be home to give him space to rest. That did not happen; he had a farmer’s market on Saturday, the girl’s basketball season started, and we celebrated our newest 9-year-old’s birthday. I woke up on Saturday, and he was gone. So, it was the kids and me. We went for Booba Tea, donated, and watched some early basketball games. Between waking up and getting to the basketball game, I got really sick. I could not hear or breathe, and I quickly went hoarse. Help! Despite this, I carried on.

    The Return to Alabama.

    I was sick the entire trip, my head fully congested with aching ears as each plane ride gained elevation. I don’t think I have had a worse head cold. I returned to my hot military lodging that only possessed a cold water option in the shower. I was so sick I did not care. I took a very cold shower and slept in a warm room with a box fan. I woke up on Tuesday and was returned to my room immediately, where I was asked to get a COVID test (boo!). Needless to say, I was in denial as I had not had COVID thus far. BAM! COVID +, how fun. Since the test results, I have been stuck in this musty hotel room. So, I am writing.

    Joy in the Juggle.

    You know, the Ritchey family is a resilient bunch. We put our heads down and work. We don’t require much to thrive, and we try to do the best we can with what we are handed, but dang. This new year’s start has come for our jugular. We could easily say, “why me/us,” but what do we gain from that? We consider every shift thus far a test of our obedience and discipline; we adapt. There is beauty in the mess and redemption in our challenges. I guess that is the upside of recognizing that it is a new year, same Jesus. We continue to accept His will and do the work required to sustain ourselves even amid disruption. We will keep our heads up and stay prayed up, knowing this is all temporary. So, I share this story to encourage you to find joy in the juggling of life; things don’t always work our way, or with the ease, we sometimes come to expect, but with obedience and discipline, any challenge can be endured and championed, stay encouraged!

  • The Farm is Coming Along

    The Farm is Coming Along

    We had a lot of internal debate this year as we dealt with blue hairs in the neighborhood upset that farm animals were allowed on our 12 acres, learning the hard way that we didn’t have enough land or the proper infrastructure for cattle, heavy predation on our ducks and chicks, and the list goes on.  We debated heavily over whether or not to sell our property and move further into the county or stay put.  Well, we decided to stay put.  We started this venture partly because I couldn’t find any organic chicken near me.  My wife couldn’t find any grass-fed beef near San Antonio, and feeding our kids quality meat is critical.  By moving out into the county, folks around us wouldn’t have the educational opportunity and we wouldn’t be able to add as much value to the community.  We’re also focused on showing people that you can be better than a certified Organic Farm in San Antonio.  South Texas is a harsh climate, but you don’t have to spray or pour on all the chemicals for good production, that’s how you get the concrete-like dirt we have on some of our pastures.  This isn’t to say we will never move, we will need more land at some point, but for now, we’re staying on our original farm.

    Scaling on this little farm has been incredibly challenging without water.  While we get super cheap water from the city, a 3/4″ water line at the street just isn’t enough pressure to get the animals water on the far side of our property and not enough to run sprinklers to get the grass growing again after we rotate animals through the pasture.  In a mega-drought year like this one, water only becomes more necessary.  All that to say, we’re about to take on some serious debt to increase our sustainability and decrease our reliance on outside grain for our pigs.  We had a permaculture designer (Nick Ferguson) come in this summer and anticipate his design before Christmas.  Nick with HomeGrownLIberty.com may have made the entire trip worthwhile with his recommendation of White Mulberry trees.  There is some data to show that pigs can eat up to 92% of their diet from White Mulberry leaves.  That is significant as a pig easily consumes 800-900 lbs of grain on pasture.  To grow these trees in the hot desert-like environment of south Texas, we need water and a bunch of organic matter.

    This is where the loan comes in.  We’re preparing to spend $25K on a well and another $12K on irrigation. I encourage folks to think about that next time they ask why it costs so much.  Each pig is about $1K in feed as it stands, not including processing, transport, market fees, the baby pig from the farrowing farmer, and all the government fees on top of it.  It’s no wonder we only have big factory farms at this juncture, taking care of animals AND the land is hard and expensive.  Who can afford it?

    A lot of folks ask, “If you’re doing all that to improve the land, why not get the Organic label?”. Unfortunately, the Organic label doesn’t mean anything anymore.  The government gets in there, adds in a bunch of genius lobbyist ideas and now we have a watered-down version of commercial farming with a spiffy new label.  Beyond the destruction of the meaning behind Organic, you’re looking at a stack of paperwork taller than your average adult, well over a decade of work, and even more money.  We are confident our product is better than organic.  The feed we give our animals is better than organic, namely because all the organic feed you get in Texas has soy to meet the protein requirements.

    • Peanuts and other legumes are extremely sensitive to herbicides resulting in far less spraying. This ensures a lot fewer chemicals in the feed and therefore your meat.

    Our feed is a peanut and milo-based grain. We partner with Smith Pastures to drive to Waco once each month for a big feed run.  It’s expensive in fuel and takes an entire day, but Steve & Sandy are dedicated to supporting the local community, and for that, we’re forever grateful.  With any luck, our future White Mulberry fodder will reduce the need for feed by at least 25%.

    In our drive to scale this year, we now have 12 pigs on pasture, those guys can EAT.  We’re going through ~150lbs each day and anticipate nearly $12K in feed cost before they go to the processor and bring in another hefty bill before market.  Thank god for our day jobs because this scaling thing sure ain’t easy.  We love farming and encourage others to start, but do so with your eyes wide open.  Farming isn’t super profitable, it’s unreasonably expensive, and a quality product takes a whole lot of explaining for the average consumer to understand.  Farming can be a whole lot cheaper, but when you’re striving to be better than Organic, especially in San Antonio. you’ve got a lot of work cut out for you.

    The last couple of big updates before Thanksgiving, we tried Pick Your Own Turkey, probably not going to do that again.  The little house is almost done and freezer space is expensive and hard to come by. Turkeys are wonderful and quite fun to have around the farm, unfortunately, they eat a TON, nobody wants a giant 45 lb turkey, and we have yet to find a bag big enough to package a turkey over 20lbs.  Also, we learned the hard way, it is crucial to restrain the heck out of them at processing, or all that flapping as you catch them results in bruising which looks green.  I don’t expect a customer to be happy with a green spot on a turkey at $7/lb, so we ended up with a lot more turkey than we anticipated.  We love the quality meat, but it sure is hard on the profit margins.  For a first-time run, we should break even, which is a whole lot better than a loss.  Suffice it to say, we don’t plan on doing Turkeys next year, we’ll let that to Smith Pastures.  In a mad dash to find enough freezer space for our 4 Berkshires heading off to Freezer Camp around Thanksgiving, we ran across Lisa’s Appliances in Lytle, TX.  We are over the moon with their amazing customer service, selection, and prices.  I have been quite clear with Alan that I don’t think they charge enough on repairs, but they won’t hear anything of it. They helped us out with 2 single-door stand-up freezers and a jumbo double-door freezer.  The little processing house I have been remodeling for the past 6 months is near completion, just waiting on electricity and it’s packed with freezers. We have bets on the monthly electric cost, hopefully, we’re overestimating that. Either way, it will feel amazing to finally complete that and maybe get a weekend back to just sit and not have something that needs to be done.  Fat chance we take advantage of that and don’t work, but it sure would be nice to not have to work if we don’t want to.

    Alright, you farmy people, it’s about time to sleep harder and faster so I can work on the feed/fence trailer and get a shed moved in the morning.  As always, if you’re in the San Antonio area, looking for farm fresh meat and better than organic, local meat, we are your go-to.  We’re happy to deliver, we just ask that if you’re outside the Devine area you make it worth the gas money, it’s not cheap these days.  Local food is crucial as HEB runs out and shortages become real, find a farmer near you and build that relationship so you’re not hungry when shelves go empty.

  • Hustle and Home.

    Into The Thick of it…

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    With full-time careers and a house full of kids, the rigamarole of farming and running our business as a side hustle can leave Josh and me running on fumes. Last weekend, Josh went all in on finishing our second house on the property that will double as our business space and Josh’s brewing hobbies. Meanwhile, I felt like I was going in circles, cleaning up after the house pets and kids with hopes of organizing. As I feverishly cleaned baby bottles while thinking about all the prep work we needed for our next market event, the realization hit me like a bull bucking an unwanted passenger that sometimes you have to let the little things go. Keeping a house hygienic is a priority. However, keeping our home clean as if it is not lived in is absurd. We have so many things going on simultaneously that we cannot worry about shoes being stored in the wrong place or hair brushes on the kitchen island. We are no longer concerned with unfolded laundry sitting on the couch for a few days…or longer (haha).

    What Really Matters.

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    In our family, we prioritize family. We work hard and enjoy the fruits of our labor together. Whether it be a family movie, game night, or smores over the fire pit, we enjoy time well spent together. The markets are busy, and we are in the throws of volleyball, soccer, and girl scout season. Josh and I are somehow juggling all of these things, which is not always pretty and is often exhausting. But, at the end of each night, after the kids have wound down with a family t.v. show and headed off to bed, Josh and I get to reflect over the day, laughing at what most would not understand by proxy of us sharing the same professional career (we spend almost all of our time in nearness, and I love it). The day’s reflection makes us grateful to one another and for our life because there is an invaluable richness to experiencing life and love with someone you can depend on through the good, bad, and downright ugly.

    Let it go, Let it go…

    So, let the dishes pile up and let the dog double as the vacuum cleaner; I am sure the dog loves the floor treats. And, if you are local, enjoy the pleasant, relaxed sunny day at your local farmers market. You can meet us this Saturday at Decock Farm in Castroville, TX (30 min outside of San Antonio) from 9 a.m. to 3 p.m. Say hello, and check out our pasture-raised, non-soy, non-GMO meats.

    And don’t forget that you can never go wrong when eating smart with Smart Growth Farm!

    Arizona State University’s Biodome II, AZ